Can we control other people?

A client of mine just e-mailed me. She asked me :

“What happens when my conscious desire competes with another person’s unconscious desire. For example, I run a company that conducts classes. One of my instructors is in the “POOR ME” mentality over her entire life including money and is not open to change in any way. I have noticed that the classes she would be scheduled to teach are canceling more
than others and I really am feeling the pinch of these cancellations.

How do I cancel out her affect? I am thinking it has to do with having my positive vibration be stronger and steadier than her negative one but I could use some advice here.

Thanks much.”

D.J.
This is a good question. Let me ask you another question: How is it that you are you are willing to do a lot of work to balance her negativity in order to keep her/him?

You may have good reasons, but as a business owner, you want to work with A players only. What you want is create a dream team of instructors. You cannot manipulate the reality or others, but just focus on what you truly want (and not what you are resisting . And you will be guided towards the way to create a dream team, either she will leave or things will change, this is your goal.

Colette Streicher, LMSW, CBT, EFT-Adv
Manifestation coach
www.CreationMastery.com

Can we control other people?(2)

My client answered (see last post):

“That helps a lot – at least for this particular question and it makes a lot of sense so I deeply appreciate your response.

If this were a personal matter, such as if this were a spouse, child or parent one was interacting with, would your response be the same?  It is not as easy to…..uh….remove such people in one’s life.  I am well aware that the LOA cannot be used to negatively affect another person, nor would I want to.  I could use some help in changing the perspective on this.

I look forward to your reply.”

I replied:

Yes, my answer would be the same: focus on what you want, how you would love to feel, and also if it is a person that is close to you: focus on what they do well and appreciate their strength and totally release any attention–if you can–on what you don’t like about them. there will be shifts that will happen, you will be surprised. The first shift will be within you , you will feel much better…and this helps tremendously

Colette Streicher, LMSW, CBT, EFT-Adv
Manifestation Coach
www.creationmastery.com